Finish What You Start!
Why you should care
How many unfinished projects are sitting on your shelf right now? Half-read books with bookmarks gathering dust, abandoned coding projects, that online course you started with enthusiasm three months ago, or the half-built LEGO set sitting in the corner?
If you’re like most people, the answer is probably “too many to count.” We live in a culture of endless possibilities, where starting something new feels more exciting than finishing something old. But this habit of serial starting without finishing is quietly sabotaging your progress, confidence, and mental well-being.
The Hidden Cost of Unfinished Business
Starting multiple projects simultaneously isn’t productivity - it’s procrastination in disguise. When you spread yourself across ten different initiatives, you’re not being ambitious; you’re ensuring that none of them get the focused attention they deserve to succeed.
Every unfinished project in your backlog creates what psychologists call “cognitive load.” Your brain keeps a mental tab open for each incomplete task, constantly reminding you of what you haven’t done. It’s like having dozens of browser tabs running in the background - eventually, your mental computer starts to slow down.
This psychological burden manifests as a persistent feeling of being behind, overwhelmed, and unsuccessful. No matter how hard you work, you feel like you’re not getting anywhere. The reason is simple: you’re attacking many problems at once and failing to solve any of them completely.
The Compound Effect of Completion
When you actually finish something - anything - you experience a powerful psychological boost. Completion triggers a dopamine release that reinforces the behavior and builds momentum for your next project. More importantly, finishing teaches you that you can finish, building the self-efficacy that’s crucial for tackling bigger challenges.
Each completed project becomes evidence of your capability. When you face the next difficult task, your brain has proof that you can push through obstacles and reach the finish line. This creates a positive feedback loop where success breeds more success.
Living Intentionally is What Matters
To live your life intentionally, you need to be on track with your goals, not scattered across multiple pursuits. Intentional living means making conscious choices about where to invest your limited time and energy. When you start multiple books, projects, or courses simultaneously, you dilute your progress in any given area.
Think of it like water pressure in a hose. If you poke ten holes in the hose, the water barely trickles out of each opening. But focus all that pressure through one opening, and you get a powerful stream that can accomplish real work.
Practical Strategies for Finishing
1. The One-Thing Rule Focus on one major project at a time. Not two, not three - one. This doesn’t mean you can’t have different types of activities (work, hobby, fitness), but within each category, commit to finishing before starting.
2. Define Success Before You Start Before beginning any project, write down exactly what “finished” looks like. Is it completing all 20 lessons of the course? Building a working prototype? Reading all 300 pages? Without a clear finish line, you’ll never know when you’ve won.
3. Make Starting Harder Create friction for new projects by implementing a “finish one, start one” policy. Before you can begin something new, you must complete or consciously abandon something from your current list.
4. Embrace Strategic Quitting Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is quit. Be honest about projects that no longer serve you and formally abandon them. This isn’t failure - it’s intelligent resource allocation. Clear them from your mental space so you can focus on what truly matters.
5. Celebrate Completions When you finish something, acknowledge it. Share your success, treat yourself, or simply pause to recognize the achievement. This reinforces the completion habit and makes finishing feel rewarding rather than just another task to check off.
The Freedom of Finishing
There’s a profound freedom that comes from being someone who finishes things. You stop being haunted by the graveyard of abandoned projects. You build trust with yourself, knowing that when you start something important, you’ll see it through. Most importantly, you actually achieve the outcomes you set out to create.
Conclusion
I discussed minimalism in a previous post. The idea is Less is More! To expand on that, Fewer Complete Projects is Better Than More Incomplete Ones! (Not as catchy but you get the idea!)
In a world that celebrates starting - new ventures, new habits, new goals - there’s tremendous power in becoming someone who finishes. Every completion builds your confidence, clears your mental space, and proves to yourself that you can accomplish what you set out to do.
The next time you feel the urge to start something new, ask yourself: “Is this the most important thing I should be working on this right now?” By constantly asking yourself this, you will channel your focus and energy on the stuff that actually matters to you.